Living Without Sex

Unlock the most powerful secret to achieving pain-free sex

Show me how

Living Without Sex

Unlock the most powerful secret to achieving pain-free sex

Show me how

Introducing

Living With Sex

with Dr. Julia Reeve


An online coaching course that teaches you how to finally overcome painful pelvic/penetration and stop the fear of physical intimacy and vaginismus for good.

Are you ready to turn this f*king problem around?

Show me how

An Online Coaching Course

This unique course is designed to help you learn how to overcome vaginismus and navigate why the thought of sex or vaginal penetration makes you freeze, be frustrated, anxious, and ashamed.

You’ll also remedy the physical and psychological problem that comes with vaginismus and finally be able to achieve penetrative sex, use tampons and menstrual cups, conceive a child naturally and have the relationship you dreamed of.

No more being at the mercy of…

  • different therapy solutions
  • being shuffled from one clinician to another
  • hope to magically find a cure through the next trial and error session

This solution is made especially for you!

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Right now, you’re desperate to find a way to make this vaginismus diagnosis go away, or at least avoid the bleak and scary outcomes and pain related to it.

But…

You feel overwhelmed – there's so much conflicting information out there. You’ve been through google, several clinicians, trials of different therapies, and yet, you’re not entirely sure what to do next. Maybe you even question if you really do have vaginismus.

The problem is still down there and it keeps f*king up things like relationships.

Let’s clear things up

If your pelvic muscles cramp up and your legs turn into weapons that you can crush your partner with at the notion of sex, chances are you’re experiencing a condition called Vaginismus.

But that’s not all. You …

  • experience pain when trying to have intercourse with vaginal penetration.
  • feel pain in anticipation of sex, it frightens you and brings on the pain.
  • have trouble with getting pregnant.
  • struggle to use tampons or wear menstrual cups.
  • often avoid situations where something is pushed/inserted into the vagina, such as a PAP test.


Ouch! What the f*k?

It can feel like you're wearing an invisible chastity belt

Because that's what it's like, isn't it?

Vaginismus is not just a muscle cramp, it’s an involuntary painful spasming of your vaginal muscles, often triggered by a memory, subconsciously. This memory results in a conditioned physical response - the muscle spasm - and this can make any kind of penetration very painful when you try to push past it. It is a symptom of the fear-response cycle. Still with me?

My proven method re-conditions your mind and body to enable pain-free penetration resulting in not only joyful sexual experiences but also pain-free insertion of tampons and comfortable pap smear experiences. Both physical and psychological therapies are needed in order to achieve full recovery. Still with me?

Let me clarify

A big part of the problem is involuntary pelvic muscle spasms.

Let’s do a quick exercise...

Do a big cough and be aware of your pelvic floor as you do so. Feel it spasm? Could you stop that from happening? Try to cough again - you can’t, can you? That’s an involuntary spasm. Vaginismus happens when there is this specific involuntary reflex.

You are not choosing for this to happen, but it sure makes vaginal penetration, such as sex, painful.

The good news...

This involuntary reflex can be re-conditioned to produce a new, more enjoyable response.
Does it take work?
Of course.

But I promise, if you go through this course, put in the time and training, you will finally overcome vaginismus.

Yes I want to fix this now!

Here’s how to end the f*king problem once and for all


After 25 years of working with vaginismus patients, I designed an online coaching course
 using the same unique method I use in my practice. My guided desensitization course is proprietary, so no one else has it.

  • No operations
  • No injections
  • No need for hypnosis
  • No need for psychotherapy
  • No pelvic muscle training
  • No traveling needed
  • No overnight hotel stays 
  • No in-practice visits

This course will give you the tools and answers you’ve been searching for, so you can...

  • feel confident and pain-free during sex
  • increase the possibility of finding an intimate partner
  • increase your chances of becoming pregnant
  • be able to wear tampons or menstrual cups

My goal is to help make this moment become the beginning of the end of your experience with vaginismus.

Really, it’s that treatable!

"We wasted 10 years doing all sorts of things. I thought that therapy would be too expensive. But it isn't - I think we would have paid ten times as much! 10 years of frustration and just one day after therapy we had sex without pain or fear. I am now a real woman, a lover and a mother-to-be. I have gained the whole world and lost all my frustration and fear. My whole future is different now - that is worth millions."

Jessica, 35

Is this for me?


Living With Sex is for you if you are just learning about this condition based on your symptoms and research. You've been struggling with this pain, but you had no idea what it was and where to find help.

It’s also for you if you've been diagnosed with vaginismus and haven't found a remedy that works long term.

Yes I want to fix this now!

Is this for me?

Living With Sex is for you if you are just learning about this condition based on your symptoms and research. You've been struggling with this pain, but you had no idea what it was and where to find help.

It’s also for you if you've been diagnosed with vaginismus and haven't found a remedy that works long term.

Yes I want to fix this now!

Imagine...

if you could walk around confident, strong, and most importantly... 

Free from the fear of physical intimacy with your partner.
Free from the anxiety and shame around your vaginal pain.
Free from frustration in trying to relate to others who have a great sex life, a relationship and children.

It can happen! I can help you get there with this course.

You might be feeling worried about your future and wonder how much longer you can keep living this way - with the chastity belt. 

Or maybe you’re feeling hopeful that this course can help you (I definitely am!)


You might feel that you’re left with 2 choices:

You chose #2...right?

Yes sign me up now

Living With Sex
- An Online Course -


Here's what’s you'll learn:


Module 1

You’ll be introduced to me and learn more about my experience and unique training that helps women overcome vaginismus. You’ll also review and understand exactly what vaginismus is, what happens during the fear–response cycle and you'll also learn to grade yourself.



Module 2

This module will prepare you for the wonderful changes to come. We’ll get into the details and take a deeper look at the fear response cycle and then explain this little thing called the Amygdala. You’ll also learn why you are being hi-jacked and we’ll investigate if there is any trauma related to your condition.



Module 3

You’ll learn why it is possible to get rid of vaginismus once and for all, and you’ll start your transformation process with some exercises for your brain and your body.



Module 4

You’ll learn about the causes of vaginismus and get a better understanding of the anatomy of the pelvis and the brain. You’ll work on those subconscious changes and exercise too. I know this may sound like –why do you even need to know all this. Trust me, when you know how things work and why…everything gets so much easier.



Module 5

Well, I’d love to provide details here but…this is where we start using my proprietary methods and all I can say is … this is where the transformation truly begins!



Module 6

You’ll continue to use the exercises and methods you began within Module 5. Each module from here takes you through to the next level of practice. You’ll also get some of my tricks for your brain, and more specific exercises.



Module 7

The moment you have been waiting for! I still can’t share these details here, but I can tell you this. You will complete your transformation and prepare for the day you have your first pain-free and fear-free sexual intercourse with vaginal penetration. You’ll get everything you need to move past this condition and enjoy the future where you can visit a gyno, go for examinations, conceive, wear a tampon, or a menstrual cup.

Living With
Sex
An Online Course


Here's what you'll learn:


Module 1

You’ll be introduced to me and learn more about my experience and unique training that helps women overcome vaginismus. You’ll also review and understand exactly what vaginismus is, what happens during the fear–response cycle and you'll also learn to grade yourself.



Module 2

This module will prepare you for the wonderful changes to come. We’ll get into the details and take a deeper look at the fear response cycle and then explain this little thing called the Amygdala. You’ll also learn why you are being hi-jacked and we’ll investigate if there is any trauma related to your condition.



Module 3

You’ll learn why it is possible to get rid of vaginismus once and for all, and you’ll start your transformation process with some exercises for your brain and your body.



Module 4

You’ll learn about the causes of vaginismus and get a better understanding of the anatomy of the pelvis and the brain. You’ll work on those subconscious changes and exercise too. I know this may sound like –why do you even need to know all this. Trust me when you know how things work and why…everything gets so much easier.



Module 5

Well, I’d love to provide details here but…this is where we start using my proprietary methods and all I can say is … this is where the transformation truly begins!



Module 6

You’ll continue to use the exercises and methods you began within Module 5. Each module from here takes you through to the next level of practice. You’ll also get some of my tricks for your brain, and more specific exercises.



Module 7

The moment you have been waiting for! I still can’t share these details here but I can tell you this. You will complete your transformation and prepare for the day you have your first pain-free and fear-free sexual intercourse with vaginal penetration. You’ll get everything you need to move past this condition and enjoy the future where you can visit a gyno, go for examinations, conceive, wear a tampon, or a menstrual cup.

Finally, unlock the chastity belt

Living With Sex includes

Modules

7 Modules


These unique modules include the proven method used in my practice for over 25 years. My approach combines psychotherapy, gynaecology, psychoeducational and neuroscientific concepts.

Lessons

25+ Lessons


Full library of videos explaining vaginismus in detail and understanding the mechanisms you can use to overcome vaginismus

*In-person patients have seen results as soon as 30 days!

Private Facebook Group


For members-only! You’ll be able to interact and meet like-minded women and couples. The only people here are those who also suffer (or suffered and overcame vaginismus)

Live Q&A


Prior to Live Q&As I’ll reach out to the members-only Facebook group and by email to see if you have questions or need further training or explanations. It’s my way to keep supporting you!

I treat all my participants as if they were coming to see me in person.

1:1 Coaching Offers


Within each module, you’ll be eligible for a special offer on 1:1 Coaching calls with me throughout the course.

The Living With Sex Online Course

Investment

€2399

One-Time Full Payment
  • 7 modules with a coaching approach created by a therapist specializing in healing vaginismus
  • 25 lessons with a full library of learning tools
  • Live Q&A with replays available
  • Private members-only Facebook Group
  • Lifetime access to the course materials
  • Special offer on 1:1 coaching calls throughout the course
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Payment Plan

€899

3 Equal Monthly Payments
  • 7 modules with a coaching approach created by a therapist specializing in healing vaginismus
  • 25 lessons with a full library of learning tools
  • Live Q&A with replays available
  • Private members-only Facebook Group
  • Lifetime access to the course materials
  • Special offer on 1:1 coaching calls throughout the course
Start Now

Payment Plan

€499

6 Equal Monthly Payments
  • 7 modules with a coaching approach created by a therapist specializing in healing vaginismus
  • 25 lessons with a full library of learning tools
  • Live Q&A with replays available
  • Private members-only Facebook Group
  • Lifetime access to the course materials
  • Special offer on 1:1 coaching calls throughout the course
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I’m Dr. Julia Reeve

My unique background led me to become an expert at helping women overcome vaginismus. I am a gynaecologist, obstetrician, psychotherapist, sexologist, vaginismus therapy specialist.

I’ve created the Living With Sex Online Course based on my success in helping patients just like you to be able to overcome vaginismus. I have helped them experience pleasure during sex, get pregnant, re-claim their confidence, stop their fear, and anxiety, so they can have pain and fear-free sex and most importantly, go on to feel secure in their relationships. 

"For me, the biggest step was to decide to trust in the therapy. I couldn't imagine that it could ever help so fast. I had been suffering for so long. I had tried everything from hypnosis to Botox nothing helped, I had always been disappointed. This was going to be my last attempt at finding peace. I couldn't believe it would help within just 30 days. I am so glad my husband and I didn't lose faith - we had pain-free sex within just 10 days of therapy. I still can't believe it."

   - Jana (34 years old)

I know you have been telling yourself,

you’ll never overcome vaginismus and, you probably already said the last attempt… was the last attempt. No more going around trying this or that type of therapy or remedy - you’ve heard it all. Until now!

It’s time to finally unlock the invisible chastity belt!

Let this be the end of the f*king problem

The Living With Sex Online Course

Investment

€2399

One-Time Full Payment
  • 7 modules with a coaching approach created by a therapist specializing in healing vaginismus
  • 25 lessons with a full library of learning tools
  • Live Q&A with replays available
  • Private members-only Facebook Group
  • Lifetime access to the course materials
  • Special offer on 1:1 coaching calls throughout the course
Start Now

Payment Plan

€899

3 Equal Monthly Payments
  • 7 modules with a coaching approach created by a therapist specializing in healing vaginismus
  • 25 lessons with a full library of learning tools
  • Live Q&A with replays available
  • Private members-only Facebook Group
  • Lifetime access to the course materials
  • Special offer on 1:1 coaching calls throughout the course
Start Now

Payment Plan

€499

6 Equal Monthly Payments
  • 7 modules with a coaching approach created by a therapist specializing in healing vaginismus
  • 25 lessons with a full library of learning tools
  • Live Q&A with replays available
  • Private members-only Facebook Group
  • Lifetime access to the course materials
  • Special offer on 1:1 coaching calls throughout the course
Start Now

What if this Course isn't the right fit for me?  

I guarantee the value of my coaching services. In order to qualify for this guarantee, you have to share the responsibility of the value you receive. What you get from the coaching sessions and the live sessions will depend on what you yourself bring into the process yourself. If you fully commit to the coaching process and get to work on yourself and spend approximately 30 minutes a day on coaching and exercises, you will see results. Everyone has their own pace at which they can move forward. Some need more time than others, and you might get through particular modules faster than others. Take your time, and even baby steps will help you reach your goal.

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